Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Stop the Madness!!!!!




As we head into this holiday season I’m becoming more and more disturbed by how ridiculously consumer driven and selfish this country has become.  I can remember when stores not only closed on Thanksgiving and Christmas, but also overnight and on Sundays!  Remember those days?  When you and your loved ones could count on spending time together at least one day a week … 

Slowly, our selfishness has led to stores being open on Sundays… then 24 hours per day… now 365 days per year.  We are a culture of consumers who insist on instant gratification and have taken a once beautiful and spiritual holiday season and turned it into an excuse to line the pockets of greedy retailers. And we all feed the frenzy by running to Wal-mart on Thanksgiving morning because we forgot to buy butter, or catching a movie when the tryptophan starts to kick in on Thanksgiving afternoon, or (worse yet) allowing black Friday to start a day early by showing up on Thursday evening to get in line so that you can save $20 on a flat screen TV at midnight...  They are now projecting that within 5 years Thanksgiving Day will be as big a retail day as black Friday is now.  The thought makes me beyond angry. 

I see people working at places like Wal-mart, restaurants, and theatres who are of all ages and walks of life, being paid pathetic wages with horrible (if any) benefits and yet expected to work ridiculous hours all in the name of retail and entertainment.  We watch our movies on big screens, sit down at restaurants to be waited on hand and foot (and then don’t tip, which is shameful, by the way, because servers depend on tips as part of their minimum wage!!!), and go to department stores all on traditional holidays like Thanksgiving and spend money we shouldn’t on things we don’t need (when we can’t even pay the minimum payment on our credit cards), all the while encouraging the corporate retailers to continue to exploit their workers and fatten their own wallets.  It’s disgusting and I’m tired of it.  The most important things in this world are the people, and if you value saving that $20 on that stupid flat screen TV more than the people who will have to sell it to you, well then I feel sorry for you.  I don’t expect this little rant to change anything beyond myself, but then perhaps that’s because I’m jaded.  I shouldn’t place my faith in people anyway, but in the God that resides within them.  Unfortunately, even those with God on board don’t always let Him drive…  

I, for one, will no longer participate.  I don’t care if I find that I am missing one key ingredient for every flipping dish I plan to cook for Thanksgiving dinner, I will not darken the doors of a store on that day and encourage this madness any longer.  I’ll stay home and have PB&Js, if I have to.  And you will NEVER catch me standing in line on Thanksgiving to participate in the black Friday garbage.  The only way we will ever be able to shift this horrible consumer-driven trend is for us as consumers to stop feeding it.   If you have a conscience at all (or a family you love) then I ask you to consider doing the same.  By shopping on holidays you are keeping someone away from their family.  It’s as simple as that.